Well, here's my secret.... RED BULL!!! No, I'm joking... For me, I believe it's all about our attitude. In my training as a Son-Rise Program Child Facilitator, I learned it was important not only to examine my beliefs about the children I work with (that it is possible for them to recover from autism, that they are always doing the best they can etc.) but equally important to examine the beliefs I held about myself. What we believe is what we become, so it is hugely useful to equip ourselves with a set of beliefs to make us the most dynamic therapists in the playroom that we can be!
Here are my top beliefs for playroom effectiveness:
- I am irresistable. I know I am so fun and loving that eventually no child can resist playing with me!
- I can really help this child. I am powerful enough to inspire any child to emerge from their autism.
- There is nothing this child can do that I cannot love. Crying, biting, scratching, poo-smearing... it's all good!
- I can be fully present with this child as the ultimate way of loving them. This moment, if it were never to change, is utterly perfect.
- I am doing the best I can. If a child is choosing not to interact with me, it means nothing about me.
- Love requires nothing to be different, yet changes everything. It is the single most powerful thing I can ever do.
Go forth and giggle, my friends!
Love Jack
Great post Jack. I am going to always remember this when I go into the playroom with my son.
ReplyDeleteThank you Jack! Yes, I am printing this out to put on my wall at home!
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