Dear Friends,
Please
enjoy this inspirational story of Raun K. Kaufman's very own Son-Rise
Program journey.
In the
1970's, when our son Raun recovered fully from Autism through The Son-Rise
Program, he accomplished this for several reasons.
1. We never judged his unique repetitive behaviors as inappropriate or "bad."
1. We never judged his unique repetitive behaviors as inappropriate or "bad."
2. This allowed us
to freely join him in his world of Autism. (Whenever he rocked, we rocked;
whenever he flapped his hands, we flapped ours.)
3. Because
we'd created this safe and supportive environment, Raun could express himself
while those around him (volunteers we trained) showed him caring and
appreciation.
As a result, Raun became extraordinarily
motivated to dare to do what was so difficult for him, though easy for most
typical children. Taking miniscule steps, he would allow
himself to look at us for only seconds at a time (after avoiding eye contact
for over a year), and he would push himself to make sounds in an attempt to
form even the simplest words (though he had been essentially mute). As a child
with Autism, he had always pulled away from being touched. But now he began to
allow us to give him small tokens of affection - touching his hand or tapping
gently on his leg. We celebrated his every move - smiling, applauding, and
cheering.
As we watched Raun move out of the safety of his
self-encapsulated universe and inch into our world, we believed his developing
abilities must have been supported by neural growth ... as if Raun had pressed
himself to grow or reconfigure his neural pathways to support his reaching out.
(Neuroplasticity certainly hadn't been talked about then.) Some clinicians
smiled with skepticism at our assertions. However, more recent research in the
rehabilitation of stroke victims supports our understanding of the body's
ability to reconstruct itself neurologically in response to a person's
motivation to reclaim the ability to move limbs or walk or talk. We joined Raun
in his behaviors with passion and love. In turn, he became inspired and
motivated to do what appeared nearly impossible. Today, with our staff, which includes Raun as one of the
senior teachers, we continue to help thousands of families,
teaching them how to help their children to take the same healing journey that
our son took years ago.
Love and Smiles,
Bears
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